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7 things Boomers learned from their Depression-era parents that younger generations think are extreme

From hoarding twist ties to hiding cash in the freezer, these seemingly irrational behaviors aren't just Boomer quirks, they're survival tactics inherited from parents who lost everything overnight and vowed their children would never experience the same devastation.

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From hoarding twist ties to hiding cash in the freezer, these seemingly irrational behaviors aren't just Boomer quirks, they're survival tactics inherited from parents who lost everything overnight and vowed their children would never experience the same devastation.

Ever wonder why your Boomer parents save every plastic bag and aluminum foil sheet like they're preparing for the apocalypse? Or why they insist on fixing things with duct tape when you could just buy a replacement for twenty bucks?

Growing up, I watched my own parents exhibit these behaviors that seemed almost obsessive. Now, after years of working as a financial analyst and witnessing how economic fear shapes behavior, I finally get it. These weren't random quirks. They were survival lessons passed down from grandparents who lived through the Great Depression.

What younger generations see as extreme penny-pinching or outdated thinking, Boomers see as common sense learned from parents who knew what it meant to have nothing. And honestly? Some of these lessons hit differently when you understand where they came from.

1. Save everything because you might need it someday

Remember those kitchen drawers stuffed with twist ties, rubber bands, and plastic containers from every takeout meal ever ordered? That's Depression-era thinking at its finest.

My friend's mother keeps a basement full of glass jars, cardboard boxes, and fabric scraps. When I asked her about it once, she said her own mother used to say, "You never know when you'll need something, and you won't be able to get it."

For Depression-era survivors, this wasn't hoarding. It was insurance. When stores had empty shelves and money was worthless, that saved piece of string might be the difference between fixing something and losing it forever.

Younger folks today see this as clutter or even a mental health issue. We live in an age of same-day delivery and disposable everything. But for Boomers who heard stories of their parents darning socks until they fell apart and saving bacon grease for cooking, throwing away something potentially useful feels wasteful, even wrong.

2. Never trust banks completely

During my years in finance, I met countless older clients who insisted on keeping significant cash reserves at home. One gentleman told me his father lost everything when the banks failed in the 1930s, and he'd never forget the look on his dad's face when he couldn't withdraw his own money.

This deep skepticism toward financial institutions seems paranoid to younger generations who do all their banking on apps. But when your parents lived through bank runs and watched neighbors lose their life savings overnight, keeping money "where you can see it" made perfect sense.

Boomers grew up hearing, "Always have cash hidden somewhere safe." Their parents knew what it was like when banks closed their doors and left families with nothing. That trauma doesn't just disappear because we now have FDIC insurance.

3. Fix it yourself or do without

Know someone who insists on repairing their 30-year-old lawnmower instead of buying a new one? Or who spends entire weekends patching up things that could be replaced for less than the cost of the repair materials?

Depression-era parents didn't call repair services. They couldn't afford them. They learned to fix everything themselves, from shoes to radios to furniture. And they passed this fierce self-reliance onto their Boomer children.

Today's younger generations grew up with YouTube tutorials and affordable replacement products. When something breaks, we often just order a new one. But for Boomers, calling someone to fix what you should be able to handle yourself feels like admitting defeat. Their parents would have seen it as shameful waste.

4. Grow your own food no matter what

Even living in suburbs or cities, many Boomers maintain vegetable gardens like their lives depend on it. They learned from parents who remembered when having a victory garden wasn't just patriotic but necessary for survival.

During the Depression, families who could grow their own food ate. Those who couldn't went hungry. Simple as that. This lesson was drilled into Boomers from childhood: never be completely dependent on stores for your food supply.

Millennials and Gen Z might see this as a cute hobby or environmental statement. But for Boomers, that tomato plant on the balcony represents security. It's the voice of their parents saying, "At least you'll have something to eat if everything else fails."

5. Work is survival, not fulfillment

"You're lucky to have a job" wasn't just something Boomers said to be annoying. They heard it constantly from parents who remembered 25% unemployment rates and men standing in bread lines.

Depression-era parents didn't pursue their passions or seek work-life balance. They took whatever work they could find and held onto it with both hands. A job meant food, shelter, survival. Period.

This is why Boomers often can't understand younger generations leaving jobs without another one lined up or prioritizing mental health over a steady paycheck. To them, walking away from employment for any reason other than a better job feels like spitting in the face of everything their parents sacrificed.

6. Never show financial weakness

Growing up, I noticed my parents' generation rarely discussed money troubles openly. If they were struggling, you'd never know it. This came straight from their Depression-era parents who learned that appearing poor could mean losing opportunities, respect, or even your home.

During the Depression, keeping up appearances wasn't vanity. It was survival. Landlords evicted tenants who looked like they couldn't pay. Employers hired people who looked successful. Banks gave loans to those who didn't seem desperate.

Younger generations value transparency and vulnerability. We share our struggles on social media and normalize talking about financial stress. But for Boomers, admitting financial difficulty feels dangerous, like inviting disaster. Their parents taught them that poverty was contagious and that looking poor would make you poor.

7. Always prepare for the worst

That basement full of canned goods? The envelope of cash in the freezer? The insistence on keeping the gas tank above half-full? These aren't quirks. They're survival strategies passed down from people who lived through genuine catastrophe.

Depression-era parents knew what it felt like when everything fell apart overnight. They watched successful people become homeless. They saw stable communities collapse. They learned that assuming things would work out was a luxury they couldn't afford.

To younger generations raised in relative stability, this constant disaster preparation seems pessimistic, even paranoid. We're optimizers, not preppers. But Boomers can't shake their parents' voices warning them that good times never last and you'd better be ready when they end.

Final thoughts

After witnessing the 2008 financial crisis firsthand, I understood something about these "extreme" behaviors. They're not irrational. They're trauma responses passed down through generations, each one diluted but still present.

What looks like Boomer stubbornness is often Depression-era wisdom filtered through time. Those plastic bags aren't just plastic bags. They're symbols of security in an uncertain world. That vegetable garden isn't just a hobby. It's a promise that this family won't go hungry again.

Understanding this doesn't mean we need to adopt every Depression-era practice. But maybe we can stop rolling our eyes when Dad insists on fixing the toaster with electrical tape, or when Mom saves every glass jar. They're not being difficult. They're honoring the lessons of parents who survived the unthinkable and wanted to make sure their children never had to.

These behaviors might seem extreme, but they come from love. Love expressed through preparation, through saving, through never taking stability for granted. And honestly? Given everything I've seen in finance, maybe they're not as extreme as we think.

 

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Avery White

Formerly a financial analyst, Avery translates complex research into clear, informative narratives. Her evidence-based approach provides readers with reliable insights, presented with clarity and warmth. Outside of work, Avery enjoys trail running, gardening, and volunteering at local farmers’ markets.

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