The habits that keep you attractive at 60 are the same ones that make today worth living
My grandmother is 76 and still turns heads at the farmers market. Not because she's had work done or follows some expensive skincare regimen, but because she radiates this energy that makes you want to know her story.
She moves with purpose. She laughs easily. Her skin has lines, sure, but they're the kind that tell you she's lived fully.
Watching her navigate life has taught me something important: looking good as you age has less to do with fighting the clock and more to do with how you treat yourself along the way.
The choices we make in our 40s shape how we show up in our 60s and beyond. And I'm not talking about drastic measures. I'm talking about daily habits that compound over time.
Here are ten habits worth adopting now.
1) Move your body consistently
Here's what I've noticed on my morning hikes in Runyon Canyon: the people who look vibrant at 60-plus aren't the ones doing extreme workouts. They're the ones who simply move regularly.
My grandmother walks to the food bank every Saturday. Has for years. That consistency matters more than intensity.
Research in behavioral science backs this up. Regular movement maintains muscle mass, keeps skin elastic through improved circulation, and literally changes how we carry ourselves. Posture alone can make someone look a decade younger or older.
The key is finding movement you'll actually do. Not what Instagram says you should do. What feels sustainable for you.
2) Prioritize sleep like it's your job
I used to think sleep was negotiable. Stay up late writing, editing photos at 2am, convincing myself I'd catch up later.
Then I read the research on what sleep deprivation does to your face. Turns out, "beauty sleep" isn't just a saying. During deep sleep, your body produces growth hormone, which repairs tissue damage. Skip that, and you're literally aging faster.
Poor sleep shows up as dark circles, dull skin, and that worn-down look that no amount of coffee can mask.
Now I protect my sleep schedule. Seven to eight hours, non-negotiable. The difference is visible.
3) Treat sun protection as daily armor
Living in Venice Beach means year-round sunshine. Beautiful, yes. But also the fastest way to age your skin if you're not careful.
Dermatologists will tell you that sun damage accounts for up to 90% of visible aging. Those spots, wrinkles, and leathery texture? That's decades of UV exposure.
I wear SPF every single day now. Even when it's overcast. Even when I'm just walking to the coffee shop.
It's not about avoiding the sun entirely. It's about being smart. Early morning hikes before UV peaks. Hats during afternoon photography sessions. Reapplying sunscreen like it matters, because it does.
4) Hydrate more than you think you need to
This one sounds too simple to matter. Drink water. Everyone knows this.
But here's what changed for me: I stopped waiting until I felt thirsty. By then, you're already dehydrated.
Proper hydration keeps skin plump and elastic. It helps flush toxins. It gives you that glow that no highlighter can replicate.
I keep a water bottle with me constantly. Drink a full glass before my morning coffee. Another before each meal. It's become automatic.
The difference shows up in ways you don't expect. More energy. Clearer thinking. And yes, better skin.
5) Fill your plate with plants
I've been vegan for eight years now, and the impact on how I look and feel has been undeniable.
Plant-based foods are loaded with antioxidants that fight the free radicals responsible for aging. The fiber keeps your system running clean. The nutrients feed your skin from the inside out.
I'm not saying everyone needs to go fully plant-based. But increasing your intake of colorful vegetables, fruits, nuts, and whole grains? That's a move that pays dividends.
My partner eats pepperoni pizza with ranch, but even he's noticed that the more plants he eats, the better he feels. And that feeling translates to how you carry yourself.
6) Find ways to manage stress that actually work
Chronic stress is brutal on your appearance. It triggers cortisol release, which breaks down collagen. It causes inflammation. It literally etches itself into your face.
For me, cooking became my stress management tool. Coming home after a frustrating day and making Thai curry from scratch forces me to focus on something tangible. The chopping, the stirring, the smells. It's meditation disguised as dinner.
Photography works the same way. When I'm framing a shot, nothing else exists.
The specific activity matters less than having something that genuinely calms your nervous system. Not scrolling social media. Not another glass of wine. Something real.
7) Maintain meaningful connections
There's research showing that loneliness accelerates aging at the cellular level. Social isolation literally shortens your telomeres, the protective caps on your chromosomes.
But beyond the science, you can see it. People with strong relationships have a lightness about them. They laugh more. Their faces are more expressive in good ways.
I've watched my social circle shift over the years. The friendships that survived my evangelical vegan phase, the ones I rebuilt by learning to listen, these connections ground me.
My grandmother's friend group has stayed tight for decades. They show up for each other. And they all have this quality of being fully present that makes them magnetic.
8) Keep your mind engaged with new challenges
My transition from music blogging to lifestyle writing forced me to learn constantly. New topics. Different writing styles. Understanding fermentation science for a kombucha piece. Diving into K-pop choreography analysis.
That cognitive engagement shows up in your face. People who stay curious maintain more animated expressions. Their eyes stay bright because they're actually interested in the world.
Boredom ages you. Not learning new things ages you. Doing the same routine for decades without variation ages you.
Find something that makes you think differently. Learn a language. Take up a craft. Read research papers on topics outside your comfort zone.
9) Develop a simple skincare routine you'll maintain
I'm not talking about 12-step Korean skincare routines. I'm talking about basics you'll actually do every single day.
Cleanser. Moisturizer with SPF. Night cream with retinol. That's it for me.
Consistency beats complexity every time. The person using three products daily will see better results than someone with 20 products they use sporadically.
And here's something I learned late: skincare isn't just your face. Neck, hands, forearms. These areas show age fast if you ignore them.
10) Skip the shortcuts that damage long-term
Smoking, excessive drinking, crash dieting, these habits promise short-term relief but cost you decades of looking and feeling good.
I watched friends in the music scene age rapidly from lifestyle choices. The late nights, the substances, the burnout. It catches up faster than you think.
This isn't about being perfect. My partner and I share wine sometimes. I stay up too late occasionally. But the difference between occasional indulgence and daily habit is massive.
Your body is remarkably resilient if you give it what it needs most of the time.
Final thoughts
Looking good in your 60s and beyond isn't about fighting aging. It's about aging well.
The habits that keep you attractive are the same ones that keep you healthy, energized, and genuinely happy. They're not secrets. They're not expensive. They're just consistent choices that compound over time.
My grandmother doesn't think about "anti-aging." She thinks about living fully. And somehow, that approach works better than any cream or procedure ever could.
Start now. Not because you're running out of time, but because these habits make today better too.
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