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If you often count the stairs as you climb them, psychology says you display these 9 quiet habits

Counting stairs isn't a quirk, it's a window into how your mind actually works

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Counting stairs isn't a quirk, it's a window into how your mind actually works

I caught myself doing it again last week.

Thirteen stairs down from my Venice Beach apartment. Every single time, without thinking. I don't even know when it started.

The thing is, I used to think this made me weird. Turns out, this quiet little habit of counting stairs might actually reveal something much more interesting about how your brain works.

People who naturally count stairs, steps on sidewalks, or tiles on floors often share a distinct set of psychological tendencies. These aren't random quirks. They're signals of how you process the world around you.

Here are nine habits that stair-counters often display.

1) You crave a sense of completion

Ever notice how reaching that final number just feels satisfying?

That's not accidental. Psychologists call this the "need for cognitive closure," and it's a well-documented psychological trait. Research from the University of Maryland shows that people with a high need for closure are driven to find definitive answers and feel uncomfortable with ambiguity.

Counting stairs gives your brain a clear beginning, middle, and end. You start at one, you finish at twelve (or however many), and something clicks into place.

This same drive often shows up in other areas of life. You're probably the person who has to finish a book once you've started it, even if it's terrible. You likely tie up loose ends on projects before moving to new ones. You feel genuine discomfort when conversations end without resolution.

The need for closure isn't good or bad. It's simply how some brains prefer to operate.

2) You notice what others miss

Here's something I've realized about myself over the years: I spot things other people walk right past.

A crack in the sidewalk. The way someone's smile doesn't reach their eyes. The barista who spelled my name wrong on my oat milk latte three days in a row.

Detail-oriented people have what researchers describe as a "keen eye for precision." They're highly attuned to their surroundings and constantly aware of small changes that others tend not to notice.

Counting stairs is just one manifestation of this broader tendency. Your brain is wired to track, catalog, and organize information automatically. While someone else might zone out during their morning commute, you're unconsciously registering data points everywhere you look.

This trait serves you well in many contexts. You catch typos before they go out. You remember small details about people that make them feel seen. You notice when something's off before anyone else does.

3) You find comfort in predictability

There's something reassuring about knowing exactly what to expect.

Thirteen stairs in my building. Sixteen at my favorite coffee shop. Twenty-two at that restaurant I love despite the limited vegan options.

Once you've counted a staircase, you know it. And that knowledge creates a small pocket of certainty in an unpredictable world.

Research on personality types shows that people who prefer routine and structure often develop these kinds of mental catalogues. They're not rigid or boring. They simply derive genuine comfort from predictability.

I've mentioned this before, but I spent years fighting against my own need for structure. I thought spontaneity was somehow more authentic. But here's what I've learned: some of us just function better with a baseline of order. And there's nothing wrong with that.

4) You practice presence without realizing it

Counting requires attention.

When you're counting stairs, you can't also be lost in a spiral about that awkward thing you said at dinner last night. Your mind has to be here, on this step, tracking this number.

Studies on present-moment awareness show that this kind of attention to immediate experience can buffer against daily stress. It's essentially a micro-mindfulness practice happening automatically throughout your day.

I started noticing this on my photography walks around Venice Beach. When I'm focused on light, shadow, and composition, my brain quiets down. The same thing happens with counting. It anchors you to the present moment, even if just for a few seconds.

For people who struggle with racing thoughts or anxiety about the future, these small acts of presence can add up to significant mental relief over time.

5) You think in systems

The world isn't chaos to you. It's patterns.

People who count stairs often see life through a systems lens. They naturally look for rules, structures, and underlying logic in the things around them.

Systematic personality types tend to break down complex problems into manageable parts. They're logical, methodical, and prefer having everything in its proper place.

This shows up everywhere once you start looking. Your grocery list probably has some kind of organization to it. You've likely got a system for how you fold laundry or load the dishwasher. You notice inefficiencies that other people just accept.

Counting stairs is just your brain doing what it naturally does: finding order, creating structure, making sense of the environment.

6) You regulate yourself through small rituals

Not every ritual is about religion or spirituality. Some are just about getting through the day.

Counting can function as what psychologists call a self-regulation strategy. It's a way of managing your mental state, maintaining focus, or transitioning between activities.

Think about it. Climbing stairs is often a transition moment. You're going from one floor to another, one space to another, one task to another. The counting gives that transition structure.

I do something similar when cooking. The precise measurements, the ordered steps, the timing. It's meditative. My partner doesn't understand why I won't eyeball ingredients, but for me, the structure is part of what makes cooking relaxing.

These small rituals help us feel in control of our inner world, even when the outer world feels chaotic.

7) You have strong working memory

Holding a count in your head while simultaneously climbing stairs requires cognitive resources.

You're tracking a number, updating it with each step, and maintaining your physical balance and spatial awareness. It's not nothing.

People who do this automatically tend to have robust working memory. That's the mental workspace where you hold and manipulate information in the moment.

Strong working memory correlates with all kinds of positive outcomes. Better problem-solving. Improved learning capacity. Greater ability to follow complex instructions or conversations.

Your stair-counting habit might be both a sign of and a workout for your working memory.

8) You seek control in small ways

We can't control most of what happens to us.

But we can count the stairs.

There's something psychologically powerful about exerting control over small, manageable things. It gives us a sense of agency in a world that often feels overwhelming.

This isn't about being controlling in relationships or at work. It's about the internal experience of having some domain where things make sense and operate according to predictable rules.

My grandmother used to say that keeping her house clean was how she kept her sanity. She couldn't control her arthritis or the weather or what happened on the news. But she could control whether the dishes were done before bed.

Counting stairs works the same way. It's a tiny assertion of order in the midst of chaos.

9) You probably have other counting habits too

Stairs are rarely where it stops.

If you count stairs, there's a good chance you also count other things. Steps between streetlights. Tiles in bathroom floors. Seconds while waiting for the microwave.

This isn't obsessive-compulsive behavior for most people. It's simply how some brains engage with numerical information in the environment.

Research on numerical cognition shows that humans have a natural "number sense" that helps us estimate quantities and process numerical information quickly. Some people just have this sense more finely tuned than others.

You're not weird. You're just part of the counting tribe.

The bottom line

Counting stairs isn't a quirk to be embarrassed about.

It's a window into how your mind works. You crave closure, notice details, find comfort in structure, and naturally regulate yourself through small rituals.

These aren't weaknesses. They're cognitive strengths that serve you well in countless situations.

So the next time you catch yourself counting, don't fight it. Just appreciate that your brain is doing exactly what it does best.

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Jordan Cooper

Jordan Cooper is a pop-culture writer and vegan-snack reviewer with roots in music blogging. Known for approachable, insightful prose, Jordan connects modern trends—from K-pop choreography to kombucha fermentation—with thoughtful food commentary. In his downtime, he enjoys photography, experimenting with fermentation recipes, and discovering new indie music playlists.

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