Spoiler alert: my carnivore brother didn't turn into a kale-loving hippie, but some surprising things actually stuck around.
Look, I wasn't trying to convert anyone. I just wanted to see what would happen if my very meat-and-potatoes family went plant-based for a month.
My brother still quotes that "bacon is life" meme unironically. My mom thinks nutritional yeast sounds like a science experiment gone wrong. But they agreed to try it, probably because I promised to do all the cooking.
Thirty days later, I learned more about what actually works in the real world than I did in my first year of veganism. Some things crashed and burned spectacularly. Others stuck around in ways that genuinely surprised me. Here's what made it past the finish line.
1. Oat milk in coffee became the new default
This one shocked me most. My dad has been drinking the same black coffee with a splash of whole milk for literally 35 years. I introduced him to oat milk on day three, mostly because we ran out of his usual dairy.
He didn't say anything at first. Then on day 31, when the experiment was officially over, I watched him reach for the oat milk instead of the dairy I'd bought. When I asked why, he shrugged and said it tasted creamier. My mom agreed. They've been buying it ever since.
I think oat milk won because it doesn't ask people to compromise. It froths well, doesn't split in hot drinks, and has that subtle sweetness that actually improves coffee. Nobody felt like they were settling for a substitute.
2. Taco Tuesday survived completely intact
Tacos are basically the Switzerland of food. They're neutral territory where everyone can agree. Turns out, they're also incredibly easy to veganize without anyone throwing a fit about it.
We did seasoned black beans and lentil walnut "meat" as the base proteins. Loaded them up with all the usual stuff like salsa, guacamole, lettuce, and jalapeños. I made a cashew crema that my brother ate with a spoon when he thought no one was looking.
The genius of tacos is that they're about the whole experience, not one ingredient. Nobody sat there mourning the absence of ground beef because their mouth was busy processing six other flavors.
My family still does plant-based tacos at least twice a month. The walnut meat thing became a permanent fixture.
3. Breakfast got way simpler and faster
Before the experiment, breakfast in my family home was this whole production. Eggs, bacon, toast, the works. My mom would spend 30 minutes every morning cooking for everyone like it was a diner.
Plant-based breakfast turned into smoothie bowls, overnight oats, and avocado toast. Prep time dropped to basically zero. My mom could make her breakfast in five minutes and actually sit down to eat it while it was still cold, which for smoothie bowls is kind of the point.
She kept this habit going strong. Not every day, but probably four times a week. She told me she didn't realize how much she resented the morning cooking routine until she didn't have to do it anymore. Sometimes the win is just getting your time back.
4. Nutritional yeast on popcorn became a legitimate obsession
Remember how I said my mom thought nutritional yeast sounded weird? Well, I sprinkled some on popcorn during movie night around day 12. She ate three bowls.
Now she keeps a shaker bottle of it in the pantry specifically for popcorn. My brother called it "hippie Parmesan" but he also asks for it every time. It's become their default popcorn seasoning, beating out even the fake butter powder they used to love.
I think this worked because it wasn't presented as a substitute for anything. It was just a new flavor that happened to be really good. No baggage, no comparison, just salty, umami, cheesy goodness on a snack they already loved.
5. Meat became a side dish instead of the main event
This is the big one, and it's not what you think. My family didn't stay fully plant-based after the 30 days. But something fundamental shifted in how they build meals.
They used to plan dinner around the protein. "We're having chicken tonight" meant everything else was an afterthought.
Now they plan around the vegetables and grains, and sometimes add meat as one component among many. Stir fries with tons of veggies and a little chicken. Grain bowls loaded with roasted vegetables and maybe some fish.
My brother told me he feels better eating this way. Less sluggish, better digestion. He's not trying to go vegan, but he cut his meat consumption by probably 60 percent without really trying. He just started liking meals that happened to be mostly plants.
Final thoughts
The experiment taught me that all-or-nothing thinking misses the point entirely. My family didn't become vegan. They probably never will. But they adopted enough plant-based habits to make a real difference, both for their health and for the planet.
The things that stuck were the ones that made life easier, tasted legitimately good, or solved a problem they didn't know they had. Nothing survived because it was virtuous or ethical. It survived because it worked better than what they were doing before.
Maybe that's the real lesson. Stop trying to convert people and start showing them things that genuinely improve their lives. The impact adds up faster than you'd think.
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